Coaches

Scroll down to find a list of all the certified Controlled Separation coaches. If you cannot find a coach in your area, contact us for other recommendations at info@controlledseparation.com

Alabama

Roger Watkins, LPC, Alabama, Double Springs rogerwatki@centurytel.net

California

Dan Beach, LMFT, Santa Rosa, CA dan@redwoodconvent.org

Ana Gonzalez, California, Pomono analivier0606@yahoo.com.mx

Colorado

Patty Sanchez, New Mexico, Holloman, AFB patty.sanchez@holloman.af.mil

Nora James, Fort Collins, CO, ncfree@worldnet.att.net

Patricia Czepiel, CFLE, Falcon, CO, patricia.czepiel@scriever.af.mil

Holly Santistevan, Colorado, Lakewood hollys303@aol.com

Illinois

Kate van Dyke, MA, Chicago downtown and north suburbs, kvandyke@divorcecc.com

Ruth Donahue, MSW, Chicago and surrounding communities, ruthadonahue@gmail.com

Meg Haycraft, LCSW, north suburbs of Chicago, meg@twogether.org

Andrew Lyke, SFO, Chicago and surrounding communities alyke@archchicago.org

Elsie Radtke,  MEd, Chicago and surrounding communities, elsieradtke@gmail.com

Michael Cummins, Chicago and surrounding communities,cumminsclosings@hotmail.com

Malini Byanna, LLC, Illinois, Schaumburg malini@creativefamilylaw.com

Candice Hughes, PhD, LCPC,  Skokie bridgingcultures@aol.com

Keith Bayer, LCSW,  Skokie keithbayer@awholebeing.com

Michigan

Julie Bock, Romulus, MI jbock@chartermi.net

Stacy Wables, Jackson, MI, stousley2001@yahoo.com

Missouri

Laurie Portell Spellmeyer, LCSW,  St. Louis, MO laurie.spellmeyer@mimb.edu

 New Mexico

Ron Price, Farmington, NM, ron@productiveoutcomes.com

North Carolina

Judy Barnett, PhD, Chapel Hill, NC, jubar@judithbarnett.com

Pennsylvania

Phyllis Parker, PhD, Langhorne, PA,  phyparker@aol.com

Texas

Debbie Roberson, Austin, TX, debbie.roberson@gmail.com  512.496.7724

Melissa Johnson, LPC, Dallas, TX jrmstx@swbell.net

Terri Moser, MS, Texas, Austin terri.moser@stcatherine-austin.org

Deacon Richard Stojak, Texas, Granbury dcndick@alltel.net

Kathleen Stojak, Texas, Granbury dicnkath@alltel.net

Virginia

Red Wynder, Virginia, Alexndria rawynder@yahoo.com

Wisconsin

Deborah Lau Schingen, MS, LCSW, LPC, Wisconsin, Milwaukee
jschingen@wi.rr.com

Lee Raffel, LCSW, Wisconsin, Port Washington leeraffel2@sbcglobal.net

Worldwide

Hong Kong Catholic Marriage Advisory Council Coaching Team www.cmac.org.hk/

Murni Abbas, Singapore, murni_abbas@mcds.gov.sg

Bernie Holford, MDiv, MSc, Herts, England, bholford@seeadventist.org.uk

Joanne McDonough, MA, Bermuda, mcdonough@eap.bm Michael McDonough, PhD, mcdonough@northrock.bm

Jill Bourdais, MA, France, Paris jabourdais@aol.com

Responses

  1. Do you know of any therapists in Ontario, Canada? We live in Kitchener, which is about 45 min from Toronto,

  2. I am sorry but I do not know of one. It appears that your message is old and I may be too late in responding, but you could get the book, SHould I Stay or Go? by Lee Raffel, read it, give it to your minister or therapist and have them use it to guide you through the process.

  3. Hi Erin,

    I do not have any contacts for you in Florida. However, if you have a minister, therapist or coach that you are comfortable with they can help facilitate this process with you. There is a downloadable version that is not expensive and it provides a guide for them to follow. They can download it from http://www.familyministries.org . Go to the Products section of the website and select “downloadables.” This has worked for many couples. I hope that it will also work for you.
    Call me if you need more info. Elsie 847.514.7709.


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