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Alabama
Roger Watkins, LPC, Alabama, Double Springs rogerwatki@centurytel.net
California
Dan Beach, LMFT, Santa Rosa, CA dan@redwoodconvent.org
Ana Gonzalez, California, Pomono analivier0606@yahoo.com.mx
Colorado
Patty Sanchez, New Mexico, Holloman, AFB patty.sanchez@holloman.af.mil
Nora James, Fort Collins, CO, ncfree@worldnet.att.net
Patricia Czepiel, CFLE, Falcon, CO, patricia.czepiel@scriever.af.mil
Holly Santistevan, Colorado, Lakewood hollys303@aol.com
Illinois
Kate van Dyke, MA
Kate Van Dyke, founder and president of Divorce Counseling and Coaching, Inc. As a mediator, coach and collaborative practice professional, she guides couples to consider a variety of options when their marriage is in trouble. She successfully uses Controlled Separation with couples. She practices in Chicago and Northbrook, Illinois.
Kate can be reached at kvandyke@divorcecc.com
Ruth Donahue, MSW
A clinical Social Worker with over 30 years of experience, Ruth’s work has spanned direct practice, administration and training. She is a trained coach and mediator. She received an MSW from the University of Illinois and has advanced training through the Adler Institute, Institute of Clinical Social Work, and DePaul University.
She can be contacted at ruthdonahue@aol.com
Meg Haycraft, LCSW
Meg and her husband Dan have a professional practice that presents couples with a non-threatening process to help committed couples attain the vision they have for their marriage. For over 20 years, Meg and her husband co-founded their business, Together, Inc. It is an education and counseling firm in Skokie, Illinois. She is also a trained to use Controlled Separation® (CS®) in her practice with couples looking for a new approach.
“Since being trained to use CS in my work as a Couples Specialist, my search is over for the ”missing piece” for many couples. By facilitating the CS process, I have helped couples speak what had gone unspoken for many months or years. This approach provides, especially for the most distressed and ambivalent couples, the structure and topics for discussion that creates a much needed “clearing” and diffuses a lot of tension and angst between them.”
Andrew Lyke, SFO
Coordinator of Marriage Ministry for the Archdiocese of Chicago. Andrew has been a marriage educator since 1981. He and his wife, Terri, have headed Marriage Ministry for the African American Communityfor the Archdiocese of Chicago since 1982. Terri and Andrew have developed marriage enrichment and marriage preparation programs that they have presented to couples across the United States. Contact Andrew: alyke@archchicago.org
Elsie Radtke, Chicago, IL elsiepradtke@aol.com
Michael Cummins, Illinois, Chicago cumminsclosings@hotmail.com
Kim Hagerty, MSW, Illinois, Chicago khagerty@archchicago.org
Malini Byanna, LLC, Illinois, Schaumburg malini@creativefamilylaw.com
Candice Hughes, PhD, LCPC, Illinois, Skokie bridgingcultures@aol.com
Keith Bayer, LCSW, Illinois, Skokie keithbayer@awholebeing.com
Michigan
Julie Bock, Romulus, MI jbock@chartermi.net
Stacy Wables, Jackson, MI, stousley2001@yahoo.com
Missouri
Laurie Portell Spellmeyer, LCSW, St. Louis, MO laurie.spellmeyer@mimb.edu
New Mexico
Ron Price, Farmington, NM, ron@productiveoutcomes.com
North Carolina
Judy Barnett, PhD, Chapel Hill, NC, jubar@judithbarnett.com
Pennsylvania
Phyllis Parker, PhD, Langhorne, PA, phyparker@aol.com
Texas
Debbie Roberson, Austin, TX, debbiehr@sbcglobal.net
Melissa Johnson, LPC, Dallas, TX jrmstx@swbell.net
Terri Moser, MS, Texas, Austin terri.moser@stcatherine-austin.org
Deacon Richard Stojak, Texas, Granbury dcndick@alltel.net
Kathleen Stojak, Texas, Granbury dicnkath@alltel.net
Virginia
Red Wynder, Virginia, Alexndria rawynder@yahoo.com
Wisconsin
Deborah Lau Schingen, MS, LCSW, LPC, Wisconsin, Milwaukee
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Lee Raffel, LCSW, Wisconsin, Port Washington leeraffel2@sbcglobal.net
Worldwide
Hong Kong Catholic Marriage Advisory Council Coaching Team www.cmac.org.hk/
Murni Abbas, Singapore, murni_abbas@mcds.gov.sg
Bernie Holford, MDiv, MSc, Herts, England, bholford@seeadventist.org.uk
Joanne McDonough, MA, Bermuda, mcdonough@eap.bm Michael McDonough, PhD, mcdonough@northrock.bm
Jill Bourdais, MA, France, Paris jabourdais@aol.com
Do you know of any therapists in Ontario, Canada? We live in Kitchener, which is about 45 min from Toronto,
By: Jenny Stamos on August 8, 2009
at 6:05 pm
I am sorry but I do not know of one. It appears that your message is old and I may be too late in responding, but you could get the book, SHould I Stay or Go? by Lee Raffel, read it, give it to your minister or therapist and have them use it to guide you through the process.
By: Elsie on March 13, 2010
at 6:06 pm