Controlled Separation

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Alabama

Roger Watkins, LPC, Alabama, Double Springs rogerwatki@centurytel.net

 

California

Dan Beach, LMFT, Santa Rosa, CA dan@redwoodconvent.org

Ana Gonzalez, California, Pomono analivier0606@yahoo.com.mx

 

Colorado

Patty Sanchez, New Mexico, Holloman, AFB patty.sanchez@holloman.af.mil

Nora James, Fort Collins, CO, ncfree@worldnet.att.net

Patricia Czepiel, CFLE, Falcon, CO, patricia.czepiel@scriever.af.mil

Holly Santistevan, Colorado, Lakewood hollys303@aol.com

 

Illinois

Kate van Dyke, MA
Kate Van Dyke, founder and president of Divorce Counseling and Coaching, Inc.  As a mediator, coach and collaborative practice professional, she guides couples to consider a variety of options when their marriage is in trouble.  She successfully uses Controlled Separation with couples.  She practices in Chicago and Northbrook, Illinois.

Kate can be reached at kvandyke@divorcecc.com

Ruth Donahue, MSW

A clinical Social Worker with over 30 years of experience, Ruth’s work has spanned direct practice, administration and training. She is a trained coach and mediator. She received an MSW from the University of Illinois and has advanced training through the Adler Institute, Institute of Clinical Social Work, and DePaul University.

She can be contacted at ruthdonahue@aol.com

Meg Haycraft, LCSW

Meg and her husband Dan have a professional practice that presents couples with a non-threatening process to help committed couples attain the vision they have for their marriage. For over 20 years, Meg and her husband co-founded their business, Together, Inc. It is an education and counseling firm in Skokie, Illinois. She is also a trained to use Controlled Separation® (CS®) in her practice with couples looking for a new approach.

“Since being trained to use CS in my work as a Couples Specialist, my search is over for the ”missing piece” for many couples. By facilitating the CS process, I have helped couples speak what had gone unspoken for many months or years. This approach provides, especially for the most distressed and ambivalent couples, the structure and topics for discussion that creates a much needed “clearing” and diffuses a lot of tension and angst between them.”

Andrew Lyke, SFO

Coordinator of Marriage Ministry for the Archdiocese of Chicago. Andrew has been a marriage educator since 1981. He and his wife, Terri, have headed Marriage Ministry for the African American Communityfor the Archdiocese of Chicago since 1982. Terri and Andrew have developed marriage enrichment and marriage preparation programs that they have presented to couples across the United States. Contact Andrew: alyke@archchicago.org

Elsie Radtke, Chicago, IL elsiepradtke@aol.com

Michael Cummins, Illinois, Chicago cumminsclosings@hotmail.com

Kim Hagerty, MSW, Illinois, Chicago khagerty@archchicago.org

Malini Byanna, LLC, Illinois, Schaumburg malini@creativefamilylaw.com

Candice Hughes, PhD, LCPC, Illinois, Skokie bridgingcultures@aol.com

Keith Bayer, LCSW, Illinois, Skokie keithbayer@awholebeing.com

Michigan

Julie Bock, Romulus, MI jbock@chartermi.net

Stacy Wables, Jackson, MI, stousley2001@yahoo.com

 

Missouri

Laurie Portell Spellmeyer, LCSW,  St. Louis, MO laurie.spellmeyer@mimb.edu

 

New Mexico

Ron Price, Farmington, NM, ron@productiveoutcomes.com

 

North Carolina

Judy Barnett, PhD, Chapel Hill, NC, jubar@judithbarnett.com

 

Pennsylvania
Phyllis Parker, PhD, Langhorne, PA,  phyparker@aol.com

 

Texas

Debbie Roberson, Austin, TX, debbiehr@sbcglobal.net

Melissa Johnson, LPC, Dallas, TX jrmstx@swbell.net

Terri Moser, MS, Texas, Austin terri.moser@stcatherine-austin.org

Deacon Richard Stojak, Texas, Granbury dcndick@alltel.net

Kathleen Stojak, Texas, Granbury dicnkath@alltel.net

 

Virginia

Red Wynder, Virginia, Alexndria rawynder@yahoo.com

 

Wisconsin

Deborah Lau Schingen, MS, LCSW, LPC, Wisconsin, Milwaukee
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Lee Raffel, LCSW, Wisconsin, Port Washington leeraffel2@sbcglobal.net

 

Worldwide

Hong Kong Catholic Marriage Advisory Council Coaching Team www.cmac.org.hk/

Murni Abbas, Singapore, murni_abbas@mcds.gov.sg

Bernie Holford, MDiv, MSc, Herts, England, bholford@seeadventist.org.uk

Joanne McDonough, MA, Bermuda, mcdonough@eap.bm Michael McDonough, PhD, mcdonough@northrock.bm

Jill Bourdais, MA, France, Paris jabourdais@aol.com